Hey there...What's up?

 Hey there, how the hell you doing? I'm pretty good, thanks.

I took a minute to look back at a few of the last posts on this blog and it's not that I'm thinking "what the hell was that(?)" as much as damn, "who the hell was that(?)". But then I remember that it was and is, in fact, me. And that's cool. I mean I'm pretty sure I'm the only one with the password and I've no reason to try to convince anyone, including myself, that it wasn't all that long ago I wasn't happy. At all. That said, I'm a lot happier these days....which is also cool. 

I'm back in Mexico and the weather has been almost annoyingly perfect. I've been writing and recording here in my little makeshift studio and it's been great. It's supposed to rain a bit today and if I'm being honest I'm excited to have a little change of pace. I'm kinda like my take on the weather in that if I don't have some shit days I come to take the good ones for granted. You can't have the highs without the lows and you can't have a rainbow without a little rain. That's a an excerpt from a song I wrote with some friends one time in the diner at the Holiday Music Motel while drinking bourbon at about 2 or 3AM. Or maybe it was PM and at that point I didn't much care because it was all the same. At that point I was emotionally flatlined and spending every bit of currency, emotional and monetary, I had on keeping it that way. Looking back, however, I realize that it wasn't only currency I was spending and that I was, in fact, leveraged to the hilt with everyone and every relationship I was blessed to have though I absolutely didn't see it that way. And if I'm being honest, again, I also didn't realize I was still taking advantage of that line of credit long after I officially sobered up. Even though I was waking up without a whiskey hangover I was still getting hammered on self pity every single day for quite a while. For years really. Apparently I had to work out some shit I'd been avoiding for a really, really long time. And I'm still working it out and I'll likely be working it out for the rest of my life and that, is also cool. Because everybody is working shit out, or has shit to work out and it's just that we all come to the realization that we have shit to work out at different points in our lives. Because we're all beautiful little fucking snowflakes and you guessed it...that's cool. I'm pretty sure I stole the beautiful little fucking snowflakes part from Gary John Bishop but I digress....

Back in the day I would ask my wife to proofread pretty much all of the blog posts I'd put up for public consumption.  I'd say something like I wanted to make sure the spelling and punctuation was good or that I wanted to make sure I'd gotten all the pertinent details in or my favorites, that I wasn't being too long winded or wasn't swearing too much. That was all bullshit and what I was really looking for was a slice of validation, no matter how big or small, because I couldn't bare to actually be honest or put myself out there to people, or myself, without first having somebody tell me it was ok. But this is gonna be just me from now on. It's not that I don't value the shit out of her opinion, because I totally do, but you know what...she's busy. She's a successful and fabulously driven women who's got her own shit going on and I'm a big kid who can cross my own I's and dot my own T's. 

You might imagine I've been reading a bunch of self-help, doing 12-step stuff, doing 12-step adjacent but not really 12-step stuff, seeing a therapist, hanging out with a support group, listening to podcasts, meditating, journaling, doing psychedelics and all the other things some people might have to do to get their feet on a solid path but hey, that's cool, because I have. I've been standing up and I've been falling down. Over and over,  all over the place. Strikes and gutters, they're all part of the game. Today, I got back up and that's totally fucking cool. 

Oh, music news! I've got some new songs coming pretty soon and, crossing my fingers here, they're gonna be on a slice of vinyl. There'll also be shows going up soon at www.joshharty.com and I've also got some other news concerning a little workshop I'm putting together but that'll be in the next episode. 

Until then, be cool.

Josh

p.s. Next time, maybe a few less swears... maybe.

A Boiling Point

 You ever just not know where to begin and every second you don't do something the knot in your stomach gets tighter and the lump in your throat nearly explodes? You've realized you've not replied to a thousand emails too many and the list of people you haven't called back is so deep in the weeds you're gonna need napalm to clear the mess. As of writing this I assure you all of this is true on my end and more. In fact, I kid you not, in the last 3 sentences I've gotten 3 text messages from both of the afore mentioned shit shows and sure, it doesn't have to be this way but try saying that to me right now...I fucking dare you. 

On my best days I'd take a few breaths, do 100 pushups, or maybe even throw 20 pounds of ice in a bathtub full of cold water and work it out that way but this isn't one of those days. Far from it. And to be honest I don't know why. Today isn't necessarily any shittier than others but for some reason it's different. Maybe because in my mind the days are supposed to be getting better. The self help books say as much and the people at the meetings keep telling things are going to turn around. Maybe I'm keeping too close an eye on the current state of my life like watching a pot and waiting for it to boil. Isn't that a strange comparison to make? Waiting for my life to boil....

Perhaps now would be an appropriate time to kick in a little context. My name is Josh, I'm an alcoholic. Words I've been repeating to random groups of strangers and friends for about 3 months now. Actually, 3 months exactly and I've got the chip to prove it. Strangely, and poetically at the same time, that 3 month date falls exactly 3 months shy, to the day, of what would have been the 5 year anniversary of when I'd thrown in the bar towel. One might consider it coincidence but I don't think so. I'm fairly certain the subconscious Josh had that planned and had been doing so for about 4 years and 9 months. Dick. Anyhow, yes I'm in the program and finally accepting a few things with one of them being I'm not alright. I mean, I'm fine and good and all that but I've got some issues that absolutely need some attention and a good deal of maintenance. It's just that I'm impatient and today my impatient meter is off the charts. That's ok. It's bedtime and I can turn the engine off and let it cool. Nothing needs to boil tonight. 

UNO & ICE

 My brother and his wife have been visiting us for the past few days and despite the shitty weather, we've had a great time. Thanks to a borrowed TV and a half enclosed back porch we've been able to entertain ourselves and stay dry when dryness was preferred. In between downpours we've strolled La Quinta for gelato,  discovered the next big Skynard cover band, and took a tour of the ancient Maya ruins at Coba. We even had to pleasure of meeting some of Quintana Roo's finest when they searched our car at a roadblock out in the middle of the jungle. I've enjoyed being able to bust out new personal commentary material as family are typically some of the only people on the planet who are able to understand that shit. 

In all the time we've spent in the Yucatan I've never seen more than 2 or 3 hours of continual rain at one time. Until the past 4 days, that is, as it feels like we've been transported to England on a wet spring day. Christmas on the beach doing beach stuff became Christmas in the apartment with UNO. Some alliances were maintained and others were born. Much shit was talked and many laughs were had. Jess, my wife and almost supernatural representative of all things calm, cool, and collected, now wishes to be referred to as Flash the UNO ninja and won't hesitate to throw a reverse or a +4 new color card on anyone who gets in her way of game domination. 

Fast forward to New Years Day. Feliz Anos, 2023!

I've been planning this day since the end of 2019 but if I'm being honest, I don't know exactly what I was doing on New Years Day 2020. I know I was at home in Wisconsin with my wife and not nursing a holiday hangover for the first time since high school but I'm not sure what we did. I imagine there was some laughing about the lack of a headache along with hopeful planning for the year ahead and most likely there were pancakes. 

This year, this morning, I woke up just after sunrise to the sounds of parties still partying down the street and all across the neighborhood. But they weren't the drunken revelry kinds of parties that so often go along with New Years, they were the more tranquil kind; friends hanging out with friends and making the most of the time they've been given. Or so it seemed, though I know, judging by the mezcal bottles everywhere, it was a multi-sided night of partying. I walked through downtown to the beach where I had to maneuver around groups still howling at the moon and a few who had howled too hard. I met with a group of folks who had made different choices last night and this morning and together we took turns sitting in tubs of ice water measuring about 3 degrees celsius. 

This was my 4th cold bath and I managed to get my hands in for about half of my time in the ice. It's getting better and my focus is starting to come into focus. The water is beginning to hurt in a more manageable way and my breath is becoming steady and easier to take. For 3 1/2 minutes I have one sole purpose: to get through 3 1/2 minutes submerged in almost freezing water. 

I didn't have a photo of me in the ice, so here's one of Jess. She makes it look easy

The end of a 30 year cycle

 I've never really been one to really savor accountability so I'm not going to say anything about making it a habit to write at this time everyday. But, as it's the second day in a row I've found myself sitting here writing at about the same time let's simply say that I'm doing it again today. Tomorrow....who knows. 

It's pretty windy today and my volcano friend never really made much of an appearance. I suppose everyone needs some time to themselves now and then, right? Hell, I've taken the last few years to myself and it's only recently I've started to poke my head back out in public a little. Sure, we had a global pandemic and we all hid away by government decree for a spell but I was glad to hide. I wanted to hide. I had to hide. I'd just gotten sober which was a bit more of an undertaking than I'd expected and then my Dad died (Covid). My Mom followed suit just over a year later. I pretty much welcomed the forced seclusion of the lockdown. Anyone who knows me knows I can be aloof and a bit of a space cadet sometimes but this was different. Everything and everyone outside of my house represented a danger zone in my not so balanced head. Rather than taking a few days to return a phone call or a text, I'm still making amends with friends 3 years later for unreturned messages, missed hangouts and awkward conversations. And at $0.25 a minute, which is the current rate here in Central America,  that gets a bit pricey. So if you're one of those friends and you happen to be reading this please accept my apology or simply know the next time I see you it'll be a lot less weird. My astrologer tells me I'm rounding a corner and have just ended a 30 year cycle and this next one is going to be something for which I've been preparing my whole life. So watch the fuck out people. Here I come....

 Anyway, I digress. The volcano has been shrouded in clouds all day. At one point earlier there was hardly a separation between the water and the pink/blue outline that is Tolimon. Even now the only way to see where the water ends is by watching the paths of the lanchas and they even seem to be battling the fog as they're all using the same stretch of water near the shore regardless of which direction they happen to be going. I could have slept a little longer this morning but the dogs were barking and that dark roast coffee was calling me. I got up to brew only to find the coffee grinder didn't actually work. Thank whomever for years of having to make do I found the blender and managed to get something in between a course and not so course grind that seemed to hold the water long enough to make coffee. Most of my mornings for the last while I've spent drinking coffee, writing in my journal and listening to Olafur Arnalds: an Icelandic multi-instrumentalist I discovered last year when I Googled classical music and trance/electronic. I'd gotten into trance music after going to a trance party in the Costa Rican jungle and dropping acid after a week long silent meditation retreat and I figured someone out there must have combined trance and classical as they both evoked a similar vibe in my head. But Olafur Arnalds, check him out. 

Now, I don't want to make excuses and I don't want to apologize even though they're things at which I'm really good. I've had years of practice. In fact, I've depended on them both for survival most of my adult life but the relationship has ended. I mentioned previously this getting sober bit and to be honest I've hardly talked to anyone about it because I absolutely refuse to preach or proselytize. Talking about it has seemed self indulgent, whiny, and pretty much unnecessary. But that said, I realized that I was on fire and not in a way like I was on a hot streak and unstoppable. Quite the opposite. I was burning to the ground and had been for a some time and thanks to the grace of the universe and my wife I was able to put the flames out before being totally reduced to ash. If anyone reading this wants to talk please reach out. I'm glad to share. 

So here I am in Guatemala blessed beyond measure, learning about the culture, learning to speak Spanish and relearning how to love music. I'm also learning a lot about stray dogs and hostel kids, both of which are very abundant here. They both bark all night but sometimes the dogs are super useful and form a great barrier between us and creepy dudes down by the boat dock. The kids, they just make a lot of noise down at the Free Cerveza Hostel.

Coffee & Volcanos

 It's the 24th of October, 2022 and writing the date reminds me that it's my sister's Birthday and I need to reach out. Excuse me one second. Alright, mission accomplished. So I'm sitting in a house on the shore of Lake Atitlan in central Guatemala, it's somewhere in the 70's and the sun is still shining. I say still because if I've learned nothing else in the last couple weeks or so it's that it will rain today. The sun comes up around 5:45am and makes way for a calm morning with coffee, some journaling and a little guitar. The lake is typically calm and serene until about now, 2:15pm, when you can see the waves start to pick up a bit and the lanchas (boat taxis) start to run a little slower. The rain won't last long, just enough to cool things down and give the scenery a little drink. The volcano I have coffee with and watch appear out of the dark every morning is starting to fade into the clouds and the banana trees are starting to sway in the breeze. I read that back to see how many spelling errors I made and all I can think is man, I'm the luckiest fucker alive. 

We caught a lancha this morning over to San Marcos, a few villages to the west, and grabbed a few groceries as well as a waffle and some hot cocao at the Circles Cafe. We can take a tuk tuk here in Santa Cruz up the hill into the main village for necessities but the selection is a lot better in San Marcos and we even have the option of buying a 50Q bag of weed off Harry at the boat dock. Harry is the name I gave him the first time we met when he said we'd have to "hurry" and I mistook him for saying his name was Harry. I think he was wanting to hurry as there was a cop on the dock. The same cop who was there today. I can only assume Harry and the cop have an arrangement worked out in order for business to be conducted right there in the open and he only wanted to hurry the first time as it was the weekend and I wasn't the only tourist he wanted to talk to. Anyway, we didn't get any smokeables but we did find some nice avocados, a ripe pineapple and a red pepper. I also scored huge with some dark roast coffee beans and a fresh loaf of German style seed bread and let me tell you in a world of tortillas, a good bread find is good. Really good. 

As for the rest of the day Jess has some prep work to do for a busy work day tomorrow. I'm going to finish writing this blog and then I'll make some ginger tea, maybe toast up some of that bread and work on a new song. Once evening rolls around we'll make some dinner, light a fire and put some music on. I've really been enjoying the new Tina Dico record, Bitte Sma Ryk, and try as I might I haven't worn it out quite yet. Thank you Mark Whitcomb for the recommendation. As for that new song part...it's been a long time. To be honest I'm not sure I've had a whole lot of interest in writing for a while. If I'm truly being honest, I'm not certain I've had much interest in playing music at all. For a long time. But, that volcano is a persuasive friend and if nothing else I have time. Lots of time. More now that I don't drink. In fact, it's been a little more than 3 years since I did and come to think of it that was probably around the time I last wrote on this blog. I've been pretty quiet about the topic and perhaps it's about time to share a little. But for now, we just caught a scorpion in the bathroom and I'm a little freaked out so I'm gonna go get loaded on pineapple. By the way, 50Q is about $7USD....

Not exactly a typical week.

Good morning and greetings from Marquette, MI.

Why am I in Marquette, MI you ask? Well, I just so happen to be on my honeymoon due to having gotten married last weekend to the lovely Jess Parvin, my partner and co-conspirator of the last 10 1/2 years. Why so long you ask? Well, I have no answer for that one...other than a mere oversight. But it's been officially remedied. Fixed. The knot has been tied and I couldn't be happier.

The signing of the license!

On the first leg of our trip we met up with Sims & Maggie from Harmonious Wail at their lovely cabin in the woods waaaay up in the U.P.. It's so far out there it was lucky we happened to see them parked at a local smoked trout stand on the way so we followed them. Otherwise, we'd still be looking for their place. On an important side note, Sims officiated our wedding! After that we attended a friends wedding in Copper Harbor which was beautiful. We did some hiking up rather large hills, sang songs, and paid $3.50 for a gallon of gasoline. That said I was given the opportunity to pump the gas from an old school pump with the rolling analog numbers beside two fire trucks with the lights on and a half dozen working fireman and a Sheriff's deputy. They were all there due to a gas spill that had just happened so the whole crew was out. They said a whole 2 gallons had inadvertently been spilled. Oh, the horror! 

Jess and Amy

On the other side of life, I'm getting ready to head to NERFA in November. That's the Northeastern Regional Folk Alliance in case you didn't know. I've been wanting to attend this conference for some time and this year I have a showcase so off we go. We're also wrapping the planning for the Spring 2019 UK/EU tour which will begin in mid March. We'll be announcing more fall dates soon so keep an eye out at www.joshharty.com and I'll also be posting more here.

Alright, I'd best get to work a little bit before we head out. Hope you're all keeping well, take care.

Josh

P.S. We also bought a house. So that's pretty cool. It's a fixer upper, but it's our fixer upper.

Random this & thats.

The Van Morrison station on Pandora kicked off with Into the Mystic so I've got that going for me....which is nice.

I was looking through some photos this morning and it occurs to me that I've left a bunch of stuff from past tours out of the previous posts. So today is for random non sequiturs and photos and such.

At the moment we're in Dunedin, Florida. In past years we've spent a fair amount of time down here over the winter for the purpose of fixing up shitty houses and putting them back on the market in varying degrees of improved condition. This year we weren't able to find a house due to the market being on the mend so it's just a quick visit to work on our tan and then back to Wisconsin. Well, briefly back to Wisconsin before we head to Kansas City for the Folk Alliance International conference. We'll again be hosting the Wisconsin Room featuring a number of Wisconsin based artists along with some of our favorite non-Sconnies. Feel free to visit our website at www.wisconsinroom.org and in the event you'd like to make a donation to our room you can do that via a secure Paypal link!

Let's see, in other news, I've been recording a solo acoustic record in Milwaukee with Steve Hamilton at Making Sausage Studios. It'll be a collection of old songs that have all appeared on other records but all recorded as stripped down as possible. One guitar, one voice. Hopefully we should have that out  at the beginning of the summer but I'll keep the updates coming where that's concerned.

From the left, my J50, the Linus built OM28, Martin D28 and a Hummingbird...I think.


A while back I played a house concert in Nashville with my old pal Brooks West & Jeff Burke. Here's a photo with Jeff and Sarah Lou Richards. 

It's Super Bowl Sunday and I'm on wing duty. Better get crackin.
Thanks for checking in and we'll touch base again soon.
Josh